"My Life So Far" (1999) is a subtle, smart, and amusing coming-of-age story set in Scotland. Around 10 or 11 years old, Fraser lives with his family on a large British estate in 1930. The household includes a strong matriarch, Gammy (Rosemary Harris), domestic staff, and his father, Edward (Colin Firth), along with his wife played by Mary Elizabeth Mastrantonio. A visit from elderly Uncle Morris (Malcolm McDowell)…