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You're Not You (2014)

2014 • 1h 44m • Drama • R
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Reno on You're Not You

7/10 · Aug 13, 2015

It had been quite some time since I’d watched a movie starring Hilary Swank; in this film, her performance was really good. There's also another substantial role played by Emma Rossum. These two actresses carry the story, which feels like an American, female-driven version of the French film 'Intouchable.' I wasn't familiar with that earlier movie, but became interested once I learned about the plot and the cast. I’m usually susceptible to tearjerker movies, but this one didn’t hit me emotionally in a big way, so it probably won’t do the same for you either. It is based on a book of the same name, which was likely a fictional story inspired by a real disease. The film centers around Kate, a 36-year-old patient with ALS (Amyotrophic Lateral Sclerosis), and her caregiver, Bec, particularly focusing on their unexpected connection and activities during her final days. They are complete opposites, but day after day, their growing bond brings them closer as they share everything about their lives. The concept is quite good, though not particularly original; similar stories have been told before. The only advantage is if you haven’t seen those kinds of movies many times. I enjoy this type of theme and have watched numerous versions in different languages. Here, the storytelling unfolds in a familiar context with a fresh cast. Even so, the movie remains captivating due to the excellent work from both the actors and the production team. > "Why is it that we want the ones that don't see us. > Instead of the ones that do." What I found disappointing was the other characters. I’m not sure where they went, but they seemed almost completely forgotten. It makes sense that the husband-and-wife relationship fell apart because of sacrifices made, and friends and parents were essentially left out of the script—something that wouldn't typically happen in real life. The writers could have used them to create more dramatic moments, but clearly had a different approach in mind for telling the story. There were times when I felt Rossum’s performance was too intense; on the other hand, Swank was quite engaging. I see that as a positive—it kept my attention despite her playing such a tragic role. Despite the good and the bad, this film seems to be a step in the right direction for both lead actresses, compared to their recent work. It’s not a well-known movie, but it deserved more recognition. A story about how friendship can develop and how one confronts illness—a friendship that blossomed at the final juncture, nevertheless fought hard until the very end. That's what sets this film apart from others. As I mentioned earlier, there are no parents or husband present; everything is told from the point of view of a friendship. If you decide to watch it, don’t expect too much and clear your mind beforehand. Unrealistic expectations often lead to disappointment. 7/10

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