This film is genuinely hilarious; it’s truly a comedic work striving to champion Gay Rights during the late 90s, a period when "Don't Ask Don't Tell" dominated discussions around those rights. It seems some viewers are judging it through today's lens and criticizing its portrayal of Gay men as stereotypical—and there is some truth to that. However, I suspect many of these one-star reviews would have voiced similar concerns regardless of how the central character was depicted. The reality is that, for its time, this movie contributed to a wave of films and television programs that helped make homosexuality more acceptable in America. This shift toward normalization, arguably more than direct activism, has been instrumental in achieving the Civil Rights progress we see today. To dismiss it based on current political sensitivities feels like an ungrateful act, especially considering its clear condemnation of homophobia and its role in fostering the widespread acceptance of homosexuality that is now commonplace. However, ultimately, none of that really matters. Entertainment is the primary purpose of movies. Even films with a message need to be engaging if they want people to watch them. And this movie *is* entertaining. It's consistently funny, even though some aspects, like the masculinity tape, felt a bit far-fetched, even within the context of a comedy—and still managed to elicit some laughs from the audience. Ultimately, it’s a humorous film that will provide enjoyment. I suggest setting aside your political concerns and recognizing that movies such as this played a vital role in shaping public opinion on Gay rights – then relax and enjoy an amusing and heartwarming movie with a positive message.

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